Sunday, July 13, 2008

农历六月初十一

Actually it's 3rd year anniversary, considered a big event. Is 2nd year but we are doing as 3rd yr according to chinese tradition.

Been many mths already since anyone dreamt of dad or dad appear in our dreams. Yes, he has died already, everyone knows, everyone must accept by now, because whatver what is doing now he is something we will never know and can't help him just like when he's alive. We can only 天天想念,不断卦念 和 永远怀念。 These 想念,卦念 ,怀念 will turn to reality if dad appear in our dreams and let us know his well being.

Finally..this chance was given to my youngest sister. She sms to us three days back..
"I finally dreamt of Dad last nite. I so thrilled n found my half pillow wet this morning. Dad hold 2 stacks of $$ n he give me $50 when I asked for it then I give him back $30 then he give me $5. He didn't talk to me, only smile at me. Really miss him. This sun is Dad's death anniversary".
My brother replied " So gd ! I never dream of him yet.
My sister in law replied " Ya..always miss him very much..whenever saw a man of his built..will always remind me of him. Swallowing my tears also.

Everyone reached home today for the praying. The two little boys pray to 外公- one says 外公,来吃饭。The younger one says 外公, I love you. 小小年纪的他们还蛮懂事的。